Who is in charge - Self 1 or Self 2?
Self 2 - The often quiet inner voice of trust and belief in self and one's own potential. Characteristics such as:
- relaxed concentration
- self belief
Self 1 - The loud inner voice of the Judge or Critic. Characteristics such as:
- fear of failing
- tense, angry, uptight
- does not trust Self 2
Both Self 1 & 2* are there to support and serve you but in different ways. So when you look at what you want from your professional or personal life, ask yourself - who is charge - Self 1 or Self 2?
make changes or advance my career.
strategic planning for my business or endeavour.
more effective in the way I work or manage my business.
develop my ideas into work that is both financially and personally rewarding.
become a stronger leader and learn how to better manage people.
determine appropriate action steps that will allow me to meet my goals.
structure and organize my workday and schedule so I can get more done in less time.
improve my productivity and time management skills.
establish stronger boundaries so that my time and energy are respected by others.
more compassionate and less critical of myself and others.
crucial issues, conflicts or situations that I need to address in my life.
develop a greater understanding of my life and my role in connection to something larger.
improve my confidence and improve my sense of self-worth.
create a life plan that will help me to design the life I want.
spinning in overwhelm and need help to get my life under control.
a purpose or a gift that I am meant to share, but I need help figuring out what that is.
identify and assess what my personal wants and needs are for fulfillment and satisfaction.
cultivate a sense of gratitude and grace in my life.
better prioritize my goals and responsibilities.
break through the obstacles that stand in the way of achieving my goals.
better ways to deal with difficult people in a constructive manner.
develop and nurture my creativity in a way that fulfills me.
Whether its professional or personal growth or both, please get in touch to have a no obligation, confidential chat about how I can help you.
My Self 1 is telling me now that this Blog is not perfect, spend at least another 3 hours on it making 'just perfect'. From my Improvisation work - 'it's good enough'.
Thanks for reading. Mark
* - Tim Gallwey, The Inner Game of Tennis